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On Thugs, Guns, Lifestyles, and The Unfortunate Existence of Bad People |
When someone dies unexpectedly, there's a natural urge to look for a bigger-picture meaning. People don't want to believe that something that horrific can happen without a reason ... because if there is no reason, then it's perfectly random, and if it's perfectly random, it could happen to any of us. That vulnerability is frightening.
So there has to be a reason that Sean Taylor was murdered, and that reason has to be something more than the whim of some murderous, heartless, piece of garbage. And if we need to find a reason, we might as well be something that's at least Sean Taylor's fault, too, just so we're reassured that nothing this terrible could ever happen to us. After all, we're very good people.
(Also on Today's List: The Rice Marching Owl Band becomes my 2nd favorite marching band of all-time ... Canadians must not have neat little signs in their kitchen with this poem printed on them ... Duke is back to their unstoppable ways, and Ray Allen does something very un-Ray Allen like ...)The go-to conclusion at this point? Sean Taylor led a bad life, surrounded himself with bad people, and couldn't let go of a bad lifestyle. Mike Wilbon went with it, Mike and the Mad Dog went with it, and some of our scholarly commenters here have gone with it.
But you know who hasn't gone for it? The police. You know why? Because they don't even know who killed him yet, let alone why. For all we know, Barry Switzer put a slug into him in some sort of bizarre attempt to win back Jerry Jones' approval. So why the rush to paint this as a byproduct of Sean Taylor's lifestyle, especially given that we know nothing about the suspect, the motive, or for that matter, Sean Taylor's lifestyle?
It's true that he had something of a checkered past. He was arrested for an aggravated assault, and he was arrested for DUI ... but the aggravated assault charges were eventually dropped, and he was acquitted of the DUI.
All of his other "character issues" -- skipping the rookie symposium, not returning Joe Gibbs' calls, the fines for unnecessary roughness -- are simple and inconsequential football transgressions.
It qualifies as checkered, I guess, but it's not like he was in Chris Henry territory. Even if you're looking to talk about the most negative pieces of his life immediately after his death, there's not a ton to sort through. The only thing anyone points to is the aggravated assault charge ... I've yet to see any other specific thing mentioned about Taylor's lifestyle that could have led to his death, or to him being in danger.
By my unofficial scale, if you're looking to judge the man from afar, the quotes from his teammates about his character far outweigh any of the instances he made Redskins fans unhappy or had to talk with police or lawyers.
I mentioned a couple of those quotes yesterday, and here's another, from a 2006 article by ESPN.com's Michael Smith.
Who is Sean Taylor? Is he the thug we see on the field and read about in the police blotter? Or is he the "nicest, most humble, considerate, respectful guys in this locker room -- seriously" as teammate Jimmy Farris says. Farris adds, "I can't think of one negative thing to say about him. It sounds funny to say, but he's a guy you feel secure when you're around him. If it goes down, he's got you."
Here's the other thing about Taylor, which makes the viewpoint that Taylor somehow brought this on himself even more troubling: no one knew him. He didn't talk to reporters, especially about himself. He rarely ever spoke a word to them, and honestly didn't care how he was perceived.His father was a Police Chief. He lived in Palmetto Bay, Florida (pictures from the vicious neighborhood can be found in this .pdf file). No teammates ever said a bad word about him. There was no reason to believe that he was involved in anything nefarious.
I'm not nominating the guy for sainthood ... after all, I don't know him any more than the people who are suggesting that the life Taylor led -- the one that Taylor never let them know anything about -- led to his death.
I don't see any reason to believe that Sean Taylor somehow brought this on himself because of he choices he made, and I've really got to wonder why anyone else would.
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Please Do Not Call the Douchebag a Douchebag Over the Loudspeaker |
We absolutely have to lighten things up in The Debriefing, and here's how we're going to do it: the word douchebag.
DOUCHEBAG! DOUCHEBAG! DOUCHEBAG!
Sorry, sometimes I just love to scream the word "douchebag." Maybe it's the Tourette's ... or maybe I've just been inspired by the Rice Marching Band.
Brief history: There's a fellow named Todd Graham ... and this fellow took the head coaching job at Rice after a 1-11 season. The very next year under Graham, Rice went 7-5 and actually played in a bowl game. The people at Rice liked him.But the people at Tulsa did, too. Graham was once a defensive coordinator there. The Tulsa people got wind of the fine job Graham did at Rice, and they wanted to hire him. But Rice wanted to keep him.
So Rice offered Graham a contract extension. Graham signed it, and then -- and this is the part that the Rice people didn't care for -- just hours later, Graham went ahead and left Rice to take the job at Tulsa. And he wasn't very nice about it, either.
So Graham and Tulsa visited Rice on Saturday ... and the Rice Marching Band had a little fun. They did a whole skit where they "searched" for Graham through Dante's 9 circles of hell. They didn't find him, even in the most evil 9th circle ... but rather beyond that, in Tulsa.
And then the band closed with this from the PA announcer:
You know, that reminds me of a joke: A priest, a nun, and a rabbi walk into a bar. Now, I forgot how the rest of it went, but I think in the end Todd Graham is a douchebag.The entire text of the performance can be found here.
Tulsa, whiners that they are, have filed a complaint with Conference USA. The band will probably be punished somehow, but in their defense ... you know, Todd Graham did act like a douchebag. If our institutions of higher learning are forbidden from holding douchebags accountable for their douchebaggery, then we, as a nation, have failed our youth.
On top of that, they worked their clever insult into an epic piece of Italian literature, so it's educational, too. Maybe the shot at the city of Tulsa was unnecessary ... there's probably no need to insult an entire town by implying that it's the 10th circle of hell.
But the rest of it I'm fine with, and I truly hope that this sparks academia to embrace the word "douchebag" and emphasize the word's power and grace to today's young scholars.
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Canadians Befuddled by Strange Trend of Kids Emulating Adults |
You can take fighting out of the game if you want to, and replace it with the ability to make Wayne Gretzky's head bleed ... but the kids are still going to be hitting each other or something, man.
Canada's in a tizzy because a bunch of 8-year-old hockey players started brawling with each other. I don't know what caused it ... maybe someone hit Jeff in the face with a keychain, maybe someone called Suzanne a lesbian. I don't know. I just thank God that the little guys had the foil on and were ready to go.Alright, I think that's enough movie references. The president of one of the teams (teams comprised of 8-year-olds have presidents? That sort of sets off a red flag, no?) described it like this:
"It wasn't that there was a major brawl or kids sent on the ice to fight. Kids were on the ice because the game had ended, and when a game ends, 8-year-olds want to celebrate whether they won or not."That's an odd way of celebrating ... "Hooray, we won, let's beat this other kid until he pisses blood!" Anyway, the manager of the other team saw it his own way. From The Gazette:
Rene Bouvier, manager of the Thunder and father of the team's centre, said it's unclear who started the fight. He said the fracas - which lasted 20 to 30 seconds - involved three players from his son's team and five to 10 players from the opposition.I couldn't agree more. If you're going to teach a kid to play hockey, and if his heroes are going to play in a league where fighting is allowed/encouraged ... then why should anyone be surprised that the kids mimic that behavior? As long as adults tell kids that fighting is a perfectly acceptable part of hockey, then kids are going to believe -- get this -- that fighting is a perfectly acceptable part of hockey.
"They threw a few little punches and wrestled a little bit - which isn't right - but the thing has been blown way out of proportion," Bouvier said.
Just tryin' to capture the spirit of the thing.
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For the Scrapbook ... |
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And He Doesn't Even Have Canadian Healthcare to Rely On Anymore |
In a fantasy football season where absolutely nothing has made sense, it's good to know that there's one thing we can still count on: Ricky Williams will be positively worthless.He's done for the year, after Steelers linebacker Lawrence Timmons stepped on his back, somehow tearing one of Ricky's pectoral muscles. It reminds me of the time when someone kicked me in the shins and my pancreas exploded.
It is kind of a shame ... if the Dolphins can't provide any kind of quality football, then they might as well be interesting. And say what you want about Ricky Williams, but he is interesting.
It was impossible to evaluate Ricky on his performance last night ... the fumble wasn't good, of course, but the man got just six carries on a surface similar to the one Bart and Charlie had to pull themselves out of after Taggart sent them up there with on a handcart. It wasn't enough of a performance to conclude that he could play, but it certainly wasn't any indication that he couldn't play, either.
Oh well. See you next year, Ricky. Probably.
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Bad News if You Hate Duke ... |
They appear to be pretty good again. The were a perfect 6-0 heading into last night's game against Wisconsin in the Big-10/ACC challenge, but they had yet to play a team that could exploit their lack of height, like the gigantic Badgers could.Duke did OK.
The final was 82-58, and the game was every bit the blowout that the score would indicate. Wisconsin's white dorks didn't have a very good time ... not nearly as good a time as the white dork sign makers in the Duke crowd.
They hounded Wisconsin all over the floor, forced turnovers, prevented them from getting into any of their sets, and for large portions of the game, Wisconsin looked like they just wanted to go home and cry.
The Badgers did steady themselves and played a 33-34 second half, but being competitive in the second half after getting blown out in the first is about the most meaningless accomplishment possible in sports. You got your ass whipped when it mattered, but hey, congratulations on being able to lose by less than 40.
Duke should get to 10-0 against Davidson, Michigan, and Albany before traveling to #11 Pitt.
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Yesterday's MVP |
Houston Nutt: Ole Miss noticed that weird thing Houston Nutt did at Arkansas ... what's it called ... man, I can't think of it ... oh yeah, winning. And they decided that they'd like to give that a try.In the 10 seasons at Arkansas before Nutt got there, Arkansas went 57-56, with four bowl bids. In the 10 seasons Nutt coached there, Arkansas went 74-48, with seven bowl bids. Arkansas decided they liked the old way better, and let Nutt go.
Ole Miss saw to it that he was unemployed for about an hour.
It's a fantastic break for a program that sucked pretty hard under Ed Orgeron ... but that doesn't mean I'm not sorry to see Ed Orgeron go. The Orgeron's greatness is chronicled best here, and his glorious essence is captured wonderfully in this song.
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Yesterday's Sad Sack |
Ray Allen. If you can't count on Ray Allen to make free throws ... what the hell can you count on in this world? He was shooting 92% from the stripe heading into the game, and had two free throws, in a tie game, with 23 seconds left ... and he missed them both.The Cavs went on to win in overtime, 109-104. LeBron finished with 38, but that's his job ... Drew Gooden, on the other hand, you wouldn't expect to finish with 24 and 13, on 11-of-15 shooting.
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For Those Who Admire the Female Form ... |
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The Evening's Agenda |
Deserving Of Your Full Attention ...
9:13, ESPN. College Basketball. North Carolina @ Ohio State. So many cool matchups happen early in the college basketball season ... it's a shame that this is the time when it's nearly impossible to pay close attention.
Other Stuff ...
7:00, ESPN Everything. Jim Valvano's ESPY Speech.
7:13, ESPN. College Basketball. NC State @ Michigan State.
7:13, ESPNU. College Basketball. Boston College @ Michigan.
7:30, ESPN2. College Basketball. Illinois @ Maryland.
8:00, PBS. Great Performances. Eric Clapton Crossroads Guitar Festival Chicago.
9:13, ESPNU. College Basketball. Alabama @ Texas A&M.
9:30, ESPN2. College Basketball. Virginia Tech @ Penn State.
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Reader Comments ( Page 1 of 1)
1. Sean Taylor guilty until proven innocent...
Posted at 9:46AM on Nov 28th 2007 by Sports Bettor
2. Nice comments on Taylor. I wondered why they push the thugishness of him when every action is probably 3 times less messy than stunts we did in our youth. I'd almost make the argument that his hard nature on the field gives him that off-field persona that the media hangs onto.
And did you see the rockin' band in your Palmetto Bay pdf file? I mean, could that not rock the Gaezbo?
and will y'all get working on another issue of Postin' Up?
Posted at 9:50AM on Nov 28th 2007 by Moonshine Mike
3. Interesting points, MJD. I think it is easier to cope with when we have a reason. It sounds like he did have quite a checkered past -- a DUI and aggravated assault, even if the charges were dropped, are not inconsequential -- but until we know more, I think we should all set that aside and see this event for what it is: a tragedy.
Posted at 9:53AM on Nov 28th 2007 by kevin
4. Well i agree with you that no one can truly state that they know Sean Taylor and his lifestyle except for himself and the people he kept around him. All we have to go by is what's in the media and hearsay.
Though there are a couple of things here that i would like to share here as my own opinion...
Something seems a bit fishy here with what happened:
1. His house was broken into 8 days before hand. (this is all the info that i have read so i don't know if anything was stolen or what-not!)
2. People knew from watching the previous Redskins game that Taylor was at his home in FL and didn't make the trip because he was recovering from an injury. (so if this was planned, the person who is responsible for the shooting had this bit of info)
3. Next from what i've read is that they were awaken by noise and the unknown culprit broke into the bedroom and fired two shots one hitting Taylor in the leg... Along with Taylor having a machete by his bed... (so was there a struggle? -Did the guy just break into the bedroom and fire shots at a man with a machete?) This seems too strange for it to be random!!! Why would a burglar go through the trouble of breaking into a bedroom and make a lot of noise if there wasn't a motive?!?!?
4. Burglaries aren't just random, especially to expensive houses owned by famous rich people!!! Anyone non-criminal can tell you that!
There are a bit other strange things about this incident that got me thinking as well...
Next i would like to point out there is a reason for everything!!! - and NO i'm not talking about some greater force or some spiritual being dictating our in-graved-stone fate! Though this doesn't mean that Taylor had something to do with it, but randomness is just a word to describe the unknown and/or something we cannot piece together...
I'm not judging Taylor at all for his past "little" mistakes in life, for we all have done something stupid, and that doesn't mean we are all bad people! Heck some people say Ricky Williams is a bad person for smoking weed! And a lot of people say Vick is a bad person for having dog fights... but you will always find those close around whomever say they are the nicest and caring people they know!!!
Though i would like to point out (even though this doesn't make or mean Taylor is a bad person) that famous people with money tend to be able to buy their way out of trouble! You mention an aggravated assault charge and a DUI that was dropped and acquitted... Now how many times have we've seen high profile people have charges "randomly" dropped???- More than i can count! Just because they were dropped doesn't mean that they really didn't happen!
Plus you mention his father was a police chief! Now come on, think about the pull he could have in order to bail his son out of situations!?!?! I mean we all know someone who's daddy is a cop and they get away with a lot of things us average people can't cry our way out of!
Next, it's very rare to find anyone on your team to talk bad about you, it's just code not to disrespect or bring anything personal to the media! Yes there are the exceptions like Owens and so forth but thats 1 in a billion! When people die you never hear from friends and family that speak negative on a person.
I'm just stating facts here based on logic. I'm not saying Taylor was a bad guy because he prob. wasn't, but putting the pieces together makes it seem pretty fishy about how everything transcended.
A sad time for all and the game has lost a very talented young player!
Posted at 10:21AM on Nov 28th 2007 by Jason
5. Peter King commented on the Sean Taylor incident, and it was predictably poorly done.
http://foodcourtlunch.com/?p=299
It must be incredibly difficult for these reporters to restrain their natural muckracking instincts.
Posted at 10:25AM on Nov 28th 2007 by Butter Chicken
6. When a drug addict has health problems, doctors often look to drugs. When a jogger has pain in his joints, its often because of jogging. When a criminal is the victim of a crime, by the same logic, it often has to do with the fact that he is/was a criminal. I'm not saying that everyone must be defined by a single attribute, but if this had been an athlete who had not pled guilty to assault and battery, the assumption would not be that it was related to his criminal past... because there would be no criminal past to relate to. You are right to point out that the police have not blamed anything or anyone. Officially, no one has been chosen to blame. This, however, does not mean that it is irresponsible for some poeple to speculate. The late Mr. Taylor's criminal past informs some of that speculation. This is not insensitive irresponsibility, more like deductive reasoning.
Posted at 10:37AM on Nov 28th 2007 by theomnivore
7. Sean Taylor is cast a thug with a checkered past, because that is what the media wants you to think about him, because he won't talk to them.
Its the same with a lot of athletes. If they don't talk to the media, or don't like the media, they are automatically a bad person, or have something wrong with them.
Posted at 10:44AM on Nov 28th 2007 by DookieStyle
8. I just saw "No Country for Old Men" this past weekend, and for some reason, your top paragraph about random, senseless violence made me think of it. Fantastic film, if the crushingly real to life ending doesn't ruin it for you.
Posted at 11:49AM on Nov 28th 2007 by Don
9. The entire state of Oklahoma is the 10th circle of hell. Tulsa is the nicest city so it is like being up to your knees in the 10th circle. Norman - up to your chin. Lawton - a foot over your head.
Posted at 11:58AM on Nov 28th 2007 by FormerOkie
10. MJD,
Of the millions of words written so far about Sean, your few have truly been some of the best.
As a Redskins fan, I thank you.
DC
Posted at 12:58PM on Nov 28th 2007 by tarheels28
11. Well done on the Taylor comments MJD.
But I want to talk about the fact you had Slap Shot and Blazing Saddles references in the same Debriefing. And I laughed. And I'm old.
Posted at 1:23PM on Nov 28th 2007 by HabsFan29
12. You commentary on the subject of the homocide of Taylor was on target. The media wants to typecast Taylor responsible for his own his murder. However, people in this country house gets broken into everyday and they are not responsible for it happening to them. It is horrible when anybody gets murdered out of their bed when they are most vulnerable. If Taylor was a thug, he would have gone to meet the burglar with more than a machete. You are a true journalist and there are fewer of them around these days, keep up the good work.
Posted at 2:10PM on Nov 28th 2007 by bryan
13. Bad lifestyle or not... How did someone get into a multi-million dollar mansion not once, but twice? This is like the Amy Smart case. Stupid parents. Multi-million dollar home, young daughters, hire transients to work on house, don't turn on alarm because too inconvenient, doors and windows left unsecure. Or the case where the docs wife and daughters were raped and murdered in Connecticut. Multi-million dollar home. Alarm not activated, side door left unlocked. Inviting trouble... which came in worst form. No mention of Taylor having an alarm? Dogs? Wouldn't he be much more aware to have a high-tech swecurity system and guard dogs since broken into a week before? Fatal mistake.
Posted at 4:00PM on Nov 28th 2007 by Michael
14. Uhm, MJD is right, as always?
I'm clapping.
Posted at 6:09PM on Nov 28th 2007 by Skin Patrol
15. Apparently a close friend doesn't believe this was an act of randomness......
http://sports.espn.go.com/nfl/news/story?id=3132378
Posted at 10:16PM on Nov 28th 2007 by Jason
16. At a time when everyone seems to be blaming it Taylor you alone in the media stand for reason. A 24 year old man died who was giving every indication that he wanted to and was turning his life around. I couldn't believe that all anyone was talking about was his record.
Posted at 10:22PM on Nov 28th 2007 by tobrien28
17. This question is to all of us, rich, middleclass, or poor. Have we ever been shot in the leg and still bledding for a wrong(crime)we've done in our past? Have ever told the person you wronged "I'm sorry, Please forgive me." A crime doesn't have to be stealing and murder only. How many men have fathered a child and no one can find you? Is your child cold and suffering and you know its your child. How many women have had a baby outside of your marriage and your husband don't know it? Are you still bleeding? That would be a shot in the leg as well as the heart. For those who are judging Sean, he might have had a past, but he did'nt die instantly. He had time to say I'm sorry. Have you? Are you still bleeding? It can be stopped.
Posted at 9:54AM on Nov 29th 2007 by bch
18. Thank you so much for your post. I hope that every judgemental creep reads this. I continue to be disgusted at the reports of Sean Taylor's "checkered" or "troubled" past. I honestly have seen NO evidence of this oh so "troubled" past. He's had a couple of run ins.. as you said, a DUI of which he was acquitted of... and the assault charge. Please, a young man getting into some trouble in his past... this does not equal to "checkered". This is not a "thug" as some people are trying to make him out to be. It's disgusting. I am so glad to read your post... people are so quick to judge but if you truly listen to the people who really knew him... you will find the truth and I'm tired of people claiming otherwise. They keep mentioning his record... is that necessary??? A loved, talented young man lost his life needlessly... it's tragic and heartbreaking and I wish they would focus on remembering him and praying for his family and loved ones instead of his "record". I understand that the police may need to step back to the assault case, etc... because they are trying to find out who and why. Personally, I think everyone else needs to keep their mouths shut when they begin to judge... the length this speculation has gone to in the media... it's crossing lines that should not be crossed.
RIP Sean
-A Skins fan
Posted at 10:31AM on Nov 29th 2007 by Sara
19. I'm no fan of Taylor, but to say he brought it on himself when no one even knows who shot him is plainly moronic. Sorry, I better explain to anyone who actually said that: Moronic means you're stupid.
Posted at 11:10AM on Nov 30th 2007 by K